Designed to Need Each Other

Image by Noel Baker from Pixabay Are you feeling lonely? Feeling like no body understands what you are going through? Girl, I get it. You aren’t alone in this. In fact, many of us pastors’ wives feel this way or have felt this way at some time. I think it’s one of the biggest tacticsContinue reading “Designed to Need Each Other”

Letting Go of Offense

If you’ve been a pastor’s wife for very long, chances are you have had some hurtful things said to you. Sometimes it may feel as though you’re a target for people to tell you what they really think. I’ve had women criticize my clothes, my children, you name it. I even had one lady tellContinue reading “Letting Go of Offense”

It’s Almost Our Birthday!

Although God laid the idea on our founder’s heart many years ago, it didn’t come to fruition until last year. In April 2020, Silently Bleeding: Finding Hope for the Pastor’s Wife was born. We still have a lot of room to grow, but we have already come so far! Our Facebook group has over 250Continue reading “It’s Almost Our Birthday!”

Expectations of the Pastor’s Wife

Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay Many times a pastor’s wife is expected to do it all. If there are positions that need filled, she is the one to fill them. This can lead to burn out and breakdown if it is not remedied. In this candid interview, Jelly Jordan Valimont shares some of herContinue reading “Expectations of the Pastor’s Wife”

The Balancing Act

Shirley Gould, author and ministry veteran, has been involved in many areas of ministry over the course of her life. In this interview, she discusses the importance of being yourself while also remaining teachable. None of us are perfect, but God designed each of us perfectly. While we always have room to grow, it’s importantContinue reading “The Balancing Act”

When You Don’t Know What to Say

Image by Tumisu from Pixabay I recently lost my parents to COVID and experienced a whole new level of grief. It’s been hard, but I am so grateful that my parents did not have to suffer for very long. Grief is a strange thing – some days it’s overwhelming, while others it’s a dull, quietContinue reading “When You Don’t Know What to Say”

They Said I Was Crazy

Image by 1388843 from Pixabay Anxiety has become quite the buzz word lately, and with good reason. People are standing up and sharing their stories in hopes that mental health will cease to be a taboo topic. As Christians and ministers, we need to do our part to help remove the shame around such aContinue reading “They Said I Was Crazy”