Here at Silently Bleeding, we have a variety of resources available for ministers’ wives and women in occupational ministry:

The original private Facebook group for pastors’ wives from all Christian denominations, cultures, and ages.

Private Facebook group for retired pastor’s wives, missionary’s wives, and evangelist’s wives.

Private Facebook group for the widows of pastors, missionaries, and evangelists.

Private Facebook group for ministers’ wives and former ministers’ wives. These women have endured domestic violence and/or infidelity in their own marriage. Some are walking through it with their children.

Private Facebook group for female missionaries of all Christian denominations. This is for married, single, retired, and missionary associates.
*Our private Facebook groups can be found by searching the name of the group in groups and requesting membership. This application includes acknowledgment of the community rules and the answering of a few necessary questions.
Silently Bleeding: Hope For the Pastor’s Wife (YouTube Channel)
Silently Bleeding: Hope For the Pastor’s Wife (Instagram)
http://Shepherd’s Fortress Ministries Shepherd’s Fortress exists to offer support and encouragement to pastors and their families. We are building relationships with ministries who supply lodging for a getaway, retreat, or sabbatical. Some of these ministries offer counseling and specific ministry to pastors and pastors’ wives.
https://www.elijahsharbor.com Elijah’s Harbor Christian Retreat Center in Greenville, TN, is a place for pastors and missionaries. They can get away for vacation or a personal retreat at a discounted rate.


Pastoral Care, Inc. is a national network willing to help provide the pastoral care needed to encourage and support pastors. Find out more here.

The Billy Graham Training Center at The Cove offers outstanding retreats for lead pastors and their wives, as well as associate pastors and wives who regularly serve and fill the pulpit from time to time. Throughout the year, they host refreshing ministry retreats designed to encourage and strengthen those serving in ministry leadership.
If you register early, scholarships are often available, making the retreat very affordable. Typically, your only expenses are transportation and the minimal registration fee.
We have personally attended these retreats for the past few years, and each experience has been exceptional. The staff at The Cove are welcoming and caring, the facilities are peaceful and beautiful, and the meals are excellent. The speakers and worship leaders have consistently been encouraging, biblically grounded, and refreshing for those serving in ministry.
If you and your spouse are in ministry and need a time of rest, encouragement, and spiritual renewal, this is a retreat worth considering.

Fairhaven Ministries is a great place for you and your family to get away for some rest and renewal. If you like to hike, this is definitely a place for you! The chalets are cozy and offer a full kitchen for you to prepare your own meals. Check out their website at https://fairhaven-ministries.org/.
