Refreshing Retreat for Pastors’ Wives

“But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us.”
2 Corinthians 4:7

Treasure in Jars of Clay
An Invitation to Rest, Refresh, and Reconnect

You carry a heavy load between family and ministry life. You deserve a time to step away and be refreshed. There’s something special that happens when a pastor’s wife connects with like minded pastors’ wives—even for a couple of days.

A Different Kind of Gathering

A group of women who understand ministry life without needing long explanations.
A setting where you don’t have to hold it all together.
A place where you can simply be.

This is not a large, crowded conference.
It’s intentionally small.

What You’ll Find Here

You’ll find space to breathe.
Unhurried conversations.
Moments of quiet.
Encouragement that is real—not forced.

There’s no pressure to participate in everything.
No expectation to share more than you’re ready to share.
Just an open invitation to receive.


Why This Matters

Too often, pastors’ wives are the ones supporting everyone else
without having a place where they themselves are supported.

This retreat is one small way to change that.

A few days set aside to rest, reflect, and be reminded that you’re not alone in what you carry.

What Pastors’ Wives Experienced at Last Year’s Retreat:

Last year at the retreat, one pastor’s wife shared, I loved that pastors’ wives came from different parts of the country and different denominations and we all bonded instantly.”

Another pastor’s wife said, “I was going through something heavy and the other pastors’ wives were able to pray for me, give me the wisdom I so desperately needed, and I felt no judgement.”

That’s what this space is for.
Not performance.
Not pressure.
Not judgement.
Just presence—with the Lord and with women who understand.

Click here for testimonial video.

This retreat was birthed from a deep desire to create space for YOU—the pastor’s wife. It’s time to tend to your own soul.

What Can You Expect:

Rest for your body
Cozy accommodations, peaceful mountain views, and unhurried time to simply breathe. (Everyone has their own bed and one to two women per room)

Refreshment for your mind
Honest conversations, biblical encouragement, and laughter with women who understand ministry life.

Renewal for your spirit
Worship, prayer, and quiet space to hear God’s voice.

Revival for your soul
A step away from responsibility so the Lord can meet you personally and deeply.

And yes… a little pampering
Because caring for others doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be cared for too.

Whether you’re weary, lonely, or simply longing for a time to reconnect with the Lord, this retreat is for you. We’re preparing a safe, sacred space where you can be real, be seen, and be refreshed.

You don’t have to keep going on empty. Come away for a couple of days and let the Lord restore what life and ministry may have drained.

Details:

  • 📅 Dates: September 17–19, 2026
  • 🏞️ Location: Roan Mountain, Tennessee
  • 👩‍🦳 Who It’s For: Pastors’ wives and missionary wives whose husbands are actively serving in ministry (This is an interdenominational ministry.)
  • 🎟️ Capacity: 16 women
    This is a small, intimate retreat designed for only 16 women—including our dedicated staff. We want this experience to be deeply personal, giving each attendee the chance to rest, reflect, and connect with others. If you feel called to be a part of this gathering, we encourage you to register quickly—spots are filling fast!

Cost & Payment

  • Total Cost: $165 (includes lodging and meals)
  • Deposit: $29 (non-refundable, secures your spot)
  • Remaining Balance: $136 due by August 19, 2026
  • Payment Options: PayPal, Venmo, or Zelle
  • ➡️ Be sure to include: “Pastors’ Wives Retreat” in your payment note.

Transportation (Important)

You are responsible for your own travel to and from Roan Mountain

A Note About Food

If you have dietary restrictions (example: gluten-free), please plan to bring your own specialty items such as bread or snacks. We will have a few gluten-free options available, but not a full menu.

You are responsible for any meals before and after the retreat

Schedule Awareness

  • Arrival time estimate: 3:00 PM on Thursday, September 17
  • Departure time estimate 2:00 PM on Saturday, September 19

What the Schedule Feels Like

This retreat is intentionally balanced.

You’ll experience:

  • Meaningful worship and teaching
  • Space for connection and conversation
  • And unstructured time to rest, reflect, and be alone with the Lord, and spend time with friends.

No pressure. No over packed schedule.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this retreat denominational?
No. This is an interdenominational gathering. We will focus on the 95% we can all agree upon.

Can I come if I’m exhausted or struggling?
Yes. This is one of the reasons this retreat exists.

What should I bring?
Packing tips will be sent after registration.

What do I do next?

Fill out the registration form and then make your payment (below the form).

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How to Pay:

After filling out the registration form, click below or use the QR code to pay your deposit of $29 with PayPal, Venmo or Zelle. (If you want to pay the full amount of $165 immediately, you are welcome to do so.)

When submitting your payment, be sure to include “Pastors’ Wives Retreat” in the note or memo section.

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Use the QR code below to pay with Zelle.

Stay tuned for more info, packing tips, and sneak peeks! We can’t wait to share this experience with you.

With love and deep expectation,
The Silently Bleeding Team

Questions? JanMcIntyre@Silentlybleeding.com

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Jan McIntyre loves Jesus, family, bargain shopping, cooking, and photography. Jan was raised in a pastor's home and is married to a pastor. Her heart's desire is to encourage and empower pastor's wives.

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